Sensual Evening-Event
Tantra & Sensuality
In our society, sensuality between adults is often seen as kind of a »foreplay« to sexuality. Among kids, we might observe a lot of closeness and skin-to-skin contact, but over the years, we lose this natural connection due to social rules. According to these, very often sensuality is reserved for romantic partners, maybe some platonic sensuality is shared within the family or with a few friends—but beyond that, we maintain distance and »propriety« to others.
By doing so, we might strongly limit our ability to express ourselves as physical, feeling beings. Maybe we even miss out on the flow of energy, well-being, and the nourishing gaze of others.
At the evening »Tantra & Sensuality«, we aim to create a protected space where adults can explore touch and their own proper sensuality without an expectation to go in sexuality. We will talk and define the two different intensions in a sensual touch: The caring-energy, which takes out tension in an encounter and the fire-energy, which builds up tension. We do exercises and transmit tools how to ask for the energy, which you would like to receive and how to express your boundaries for the energies you do not want to receive.
Many people, at some point, feel a deep longing for touch, to be held, and to snuggle up. But they fear awakening expectations they cannot or do not want to fulfill. In the end, we feel an emptiness, a loneliness that settles into our system—a vague sense that something is missing.
For us, Tantra is the philosophy of seeing a person in their wholeness—their body, emotions, personal history, shadow as well as light parts and moments of radiance. Tantra, to us, means embracing authenticity as both human and spiritual beings. If we are courageous enough to open ourselves to this, we also open the doors to our own hearts.
The goal of this evening is, to just »be« and together build up a secure environment to give space to our authentic sensual being. This is one of the core principles of tantrism, as we define it. Based on this philosophy, we open spaces with tantric qualities in our evenings or workshops. We defined these spaces by »holding space«, »presence«, »consent«, »compassion«, »caring for oneself and others«, »authenticity« and »nurturing touch«.
We look forward welcoming you into this intimate and carefully curated circle. For this we ask you to fill the form below, if you did not yet attend another event of us.Â
✨ This evening will take place fully dressed and without contact of intimate, sensible areas! ✨
Our next dates:
9th of April 2025
Liège, Belgium
When: 19–22:30 h
Arrival-time: between 18:30 & 18:50 h*
Costs: between 70–140 €**
(Value: 100 €)
2nd of September 2025
Aachen, Germany
When: 19–22:30 h
Arrival-time: between 18:30 & 18:50 h*
Costs: between 70–140 €**
(Value: 100 €)
Individual Cuddle-Spaces
Liège, Belgium
When: 19–22:30 h
Arrival-time: between 18:30 & 18:50 h*
Costs: between 70–140 €**
(Value: 100 €)
*Important note: Please be in time as we close the doors strictly at 18:50 h. We do this out of respect of everyones time and because we need the full 3,5 h to build up the experience. Thank you for your understanding!
**Sliding scale: Pay what feels right for you within this range. There are also spots available for low-income earners or people without income. If this applies to you, feel free to contact me directly: hello@intousia.com
Who are »we«?
I have created and hold this workshop as a collaborative project together with my partner Nicolas Deru, tantric initiator and masseur from »La voie du plaisir« in Liège, Belgium. Together we love to give interested people a soft and global entrance into the tantric philosophy and world.Â
We love to transmit tools and knowledge how to take care of, as well as how to communicate needs, desires and boundaries in order to create a secure space to explore and nourish themselves holistically.Â
Our Values
We strive to create a warm and welcoming space where everyone can feel accepted just as they are, in an atmosphere of love, respect, and deep connection.
This event is open to all and designed to be inclusive and LGBTQIA+ friendly. Everyone is invited, regardless of body shape, gender identity, sexual orientation, or age. You are welcome to bring your needs, boundaries, and emotions into this space, where they will be honored with care and understanding.
This is a place that promotes gender equality, where no one is confined to predefined roles based on gender. It embraces diversity, individuality, and the uniqueness of every person. We are committed to maintaining an environment free from systemic discrimination, including fatphobia, homophobia, transphobia, racism, sexism, putophobia, and classism. Mutual respect is essential, and we encourage self-awareness regarding personal judgments and the impact they may have on others.
To keep this space truly safe, we invite you to be mindful of the language you use and the way you engage in conversations.
In this event »Tantra & Sensuality« we discover the two energies of sensuality: a non-sexual caring-engery as well as a fire-energy, which might built up an erotic tension. Each of these energies are welcome as long as the person you are interacting with is giving their consent! You are welcome to attend solo or as a couple. Couples can choose to stay exclusive with each other or to share moments with others. You will have the opportunity to openly express your boundaries and preferences within the group.
This evening opened my eyes in many ways. I realised how much I limited myself in my life in living and expressing my sensuality in its wholeness—simply because I wanted to protect myself from others’ expectations to move into sexuality. It went so far that I couldn’t even dance freely in public, because I felt it would be perceived as an invitation to approach me, and so on…
Now I’ve learned to name the energies I would like to experience—and also to kindly and clearly express what I do not want to receive. I leave this evening with deep gratitude, because I now feel more clarity within myself and I’m learning how to communicate it to others.
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What we can see in our work: in these individualistic times in which we live, many people have a strong need for connection. For this reason, we want to connect these people, that feel the call for more depth in their lives, to connect with others in their authenticity.
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