The Art of Cuddling
We all need touch. Maybe it needed a global pandemic to remind us of that. For both our mental and physical well-being, it is essential to touch and be touched. When we are able to cradle our entire system in a sense of safety through contact with others, unexpected creative forces can be released — because we become more balanced, more trusting of others and ourselves. We are social beings: only when we are no longer preoccupied with “survival” (life)creativity can flow freely within us.
That’s why I open up spaces where we can come together, learn the art of communication in a consensual way, and touch — to nourish ourselves and one another.
It’s a space to become part of a beautiful cuddle community, surrounded by like-minded and open-hearted people. You can join our cuddle community in a group experience, book your individual session, or enjoy a guided cuddle evening with your friends.
All events and sessions take place fully clothed and with non-sexual intention!
Cuddeling in a group
What to expect?
An evening of platonic togetherness with moments full of presence, mindfulness and goodwill! Together, we will create a protected container by sharing about ourselves to each other, doing exercises to sense and name our boundaries, and practicing how to find a shared consensus. This will allow us to later experience the quality of platonic touch and to relax into it. This evening is a small pause from the rush of everyday life – a soft landing into simply being.
This cuddle event is a purely platonic evening without any sexual intent or interaction and takes place fully clothed.
Touch, as we know, can go far beyond physical contact: for this reason, everyone is welcome – with their needs, boundaries, and fears. Couples can choose to be open or exclusive with each other, and everyone will have the opportunity to share your boundaries with the group.
All genders, identities, ethnicities, body types, and age are welcome. The basic principles are respect, consent, and non-judgment. We ask that you respect your own boundaries and those of others. Physical touch is never mandatory: everyone is free to share the level of touch that feels right for them, always honoring consent and boundaries.
Important Note: To create a protected space, we kindly ask that you read and agree to our values beforehand (you’ll find them further down in the text).
A spot can only be reserved once this agreement has been submitted through our website. Thank you for your understanding.
All information at a glance:
What to bring:
Comfortable clothes, a waterbottle
Duration:
ca. 3 to 4 h
Languages:
German, English, French possible
Costs:
Our evenings in Aachen & Liège:
Mindful contribution between €25–50
(Low- or no-income spots available)
Our evening in Ratingen (only German):
Fixed price €40
Important Preparation!
We recommend that you freshen up a bit before the event and – if you smoke – ensure fresh breath. Since we will be coming into close contact, a pleasant scent and general self-care help create a joyful and comfortable atmosphere for everyone. If you’re not feeling well or there’s any risk of contagion, we kindly ask you to stay home – and simply join us at the next cuddle evening.
Cancellation Policy:
If you need to cancel for serious reasons (e.g. illness with medical certificate, death in the family, etc.), we will refund everything above €20 of your contribution. We kindly ask for your understanding that we retain €20 to cover expenses and processing fees.
Our next dates:
29th of April 2025
and once a quarter
in Aachen, Germany
in the premises of
»Point of Balance«
18:30–22:30 h
Costs: between 25–50 €
(Value: 35 €), Places for low- or no-income possible
7th of May 2025
and each 1. Wendesday a month
in Liège, Belgium
in the premises of
»La voie du plaisir«
18:50–22:30 h
Costs: between 25–50 €
(Value: 35 €), Places for low- or no-income possible
21st of May 2025
as well as on the 25th of September and the 26th or November 2025
in Ratingen, Germany
in the premises of
»FeelZeit«
(only German)
18–22 h
Costs: fixed price: 40 €
I discovered Steffi’s activities through a cuddle night organized by her and her partner, Nicolas. It’s a kind of activity I’d never done before and, to be honest, I went into it with a certain amount of trepidation. Clearly, I wanted to experience tenderness in a non-sexual context, but a lot of questions were running through my mind: Wasn’t it going to be weird, a bit uncomfortable? How would it go? And if I didn’t like someone, how could I push them away without hurting their feelings?
Within minutes of my arrival, these concerns melted like snow in the sun: Nico and Steffi immediately established a climate of trust, where safety and consent were the watchwords. With a mixture of awareness and humor, they laid down the rules which then enabled the evening to flow smoothly, gently and enthusiastically. They were always present in the room, keeping a watchful eye to ensure that everyone’s experience was excellent.
Really, if the concept appeals to you, you can go with your eyes closed. Thank you Steffi & Nico!
Individual Cuddle-Session
What to expect?
Sometimes it takes the undivided presence of another person and a truly individual response to your process and needs in order to create a space where relaxation and trust can fully unfold. I’m happy to offer you this. Together, we will create a protected space based on your needs, processes, and boundaries — a space where you can fully let go and reconnect with your inner strength, vulnerability, balance, and sovereignty.
This cuddle session is a platonic experience without any sexual intention or interaction and takes place fully clothed.
In this space, you are welcome with all your emotions — your fears, as well as your unique story with all the dark and light parts. We will begin with a conversation to find out where you are and what you need, and from there, we will move into touch at your own pace and rhythm, together.
All information at a glance:
What to bring:
Comfortable clothes, a waterbottle
Duration:
either 60 or 90 minutes
Where:
Aachen, Germany or Liège, Belgium
Costs:
60 minutes – 90 €
90 minutes – 120 €
Important Preparation!
I kindly ask you to freshen up a little before the session and — if you smoke — to ensure fresh breath. Since we will be in close proximity, a pleasant scent and personal hygiene help create an atmosphere of joy and comfort in our connection. I will do the same.
Cancellation Policy:
If you need to cancel for serious reasons (illness with a doctor’s note, a death in the family, etc.), I will refund any amount over €50 of your contribution. I ask for — and thank you for — your understanding.
I have rarely experienced so much mindfulness and goodwill as I did in my one-on-one session with Steffi. With her warm and gentle nature, I felt like I could simply be myself, just as I am in this very moment. Steffi is incredibly empathetic and completely non-judgmental. During our session, I was able to express all my concerns, openly share about my story, and gently move into touch, respecting my own pace. I left the session with a deep sense of relaxation, gratitude, and strength, returning home feeling renewed.
Your private cuddle experience with friends
What to expect?
We create a personalized cuddle space for you and your loved ones – without a special occasion, or as part of one such as birthday celebrations, anniversaries, bachelorette parties, festivals, or holiday gatherings like Christmas or New Year’s Eve. If you wish to deepen your connection with your friends in a beautiful way to share an evening of authenticity and heartfelt connection, we will gently guide you through this experience.
This cuddle event is also entirely platonic, with no sexual intention or interaction, and takes place fully clothed.
We will begin with a conversation to explore the energy you’d like to bring into this experience (festive or more casual), and then create a space of trust together through consent-based exercises before moving into mindful touch.
All information at a glance:
What to bring:
Comfortable cothes, a waterbottle
Duration:
app. 4 h
Where:
in Aachen, Germany or LĂĽttich, Belgium or at your location
Costs:
Price upon request, depending on location, plus travel expenses.
Cuddling one-to-one
Individual Session
Sometimes it takes full focus, calm, and 100% presence from one person for another. I am happy to hold space for you in your individual cuddle session. We will discuss what you need, what brings you here, and together we will create a framework in which you can let yourself drop—just as much as feels right for you.
60 min – 90 €
90 min – 130 €
Cuddle Evenings
Regular Cuddle Circle
To integrate touch into our daily lives, a consensual cuddle exchange in a group setting takes place every first Wednesday of the month in Liège, and regularly in Aachen and Ratingen. Join this beautiful, platonic experience to connect with like-minded people.
in Aachen & Liège: between 25 and 50 €
or in Ratingen: fixed price 40 €
You own Cuddle Circle
Let´s find a date
If you would like to create your own cuddle space—with people you know and love—for a special occasion or as a gift for a friend, you can book me to open and hold a space in your own home or apartment… Let’s find a date for your private session:
Price upon request
(depends on duration & distance)
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