The Art of Cuddling
We all need touch. Maybe it needed a worldwide pandemic to bring again awareness to how much we really need to be in physical contact with others! It is necessary for our mental as well as for our physical health to touch and be touched–in a way that feels good for us and how we would like to give a touch. If we can cradle our entire system in a sense of security through contact with others, this releases unimagined creative forces, because we become more balanced and come to trust others and ourselves more. We are social beings: Only when we are no longer preoccupied with »survival«, creativity can flow freely within us.
For this reason, I open up spaces where we can meet, learn the art of communication in a consensual way and touch to nurture ourselves and each other. It is a space where you can become a part of a beautiful cuddle-community, with like-minded and open-hearted people.
All sessions take place dressed and without any sexual intension!
Our next dates:
February 5th 2025 and each first Wednesday per month in Liège, 18:50–22 h
at »La Voie du plaisir« in Liège, Belgium
Costs: Conscious Donation (as orientation: Value: 35 €)
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Februar 19th 2025 in Aachen, 19:20–23 h
at Warung Yoga, Aachen, Germany
Costs: between 25 and 50 € (Value 35 €)
Places for Low- or No-Income available – please contact me: hello@intousia.com
As we want to create a safe space, we ask you to read through our values BEFORE booking a ticket and agree if they resonate with you. After we receive your confirmation of our values, we will send you the link to book your space. Thank you for your understanding!
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March 19th 2025, Mai 21st, September 24th, November 26th in Ratingen, Germany, 19–22 h
at feelzeit, Ratingen, Germany
Our Values
We want to offer a special, safe space where everyone can feel welcome as they are, in the spirit of love, respect and connection.
These cuddle events are open to everyone. They are inclusive and LGBT+++ friendly spaces. Everyone is welcome, whatever their body shape, gender identity, sexual orientation or age. Everyone is also welcome with their needs, limits and fears. In other words, this is a space that stands for gender equality (where we are not assigned to predetermined gender roles), acceptance of diversity, differences and the uniqueness of each individual. We take care to avoid systemic oppression (grossophobia, homophobia, transphobia, racism, sexism, putophobia, classism, etc.). This is a space where we ask everyone to respect each other. We ask also everybody to be aware when a judgement is coming up, to reflect about it and to not put your judgement on others in the space. In order that this space stays a safe one we ask for your consciousness about the words you use in your sharings.
The cuddle-events are platonic spaces without any sexual intention. You can come alone or as a couple. Couples can be open or exclusive with each other. You will have the opportunity to share your limits with the group.
New Year's Cuddle Night
31th December 2024
To start the year 2025 in connection, warmth and relaxed setting, I will create for this very special way to end one and begin the following year a cuddle-space together with Nicolas from »La voie du plaisir« in Liége, Belgium. 40 minutes from Aachen.
Monthly Cuddle Event
Each first Wednesday
To integrate touch in our daily lives, each first wendesday a month is dedicated to sharing the art of consensual cuddling in a group-setting. Be a part of this beautiful, platonic, donation-based experience and connect with like-minded people.
Individual Cuddle-Spaces
Let’s find a Date
If you are interested to create your own cuddle-space, with people you know and love, for a special occasion or as a gift for a friend, you can book me to open and hold you a space in your own house, apartment … Let’s find an appointment for your private session.Â
I discovered Steffi’s activities through a cuddle night organized by her and her partner, Nicolas. It’s a kind of activity I’d never done before and, to be honest, I went into it with a certain amount of trepidation. Clearly, I wanted to experience tenderness in a non-sexual context, but a lot of questions were running through my mind: Wasn’t it going to be weird, a bit uncomfortable? How would it go? And if I didn’t like someone, how could I push them away without hurting their feelings?
Within minutes of my arrival, these concerns melted like snow in the sun: Nico and Steffi immediately established a climate of trust, where safety and consent were the watchwords. With a mixture of awareness and humor, they laid down the rules which then enabled the evening to flow smoothly, gently and enthusiastically. They were always present in the room, keeping a watchful eye to ensure that everyone’s experience was excellent.
Really, if the concept appeals to you, you can go with your eyes closed. Thank you Steffi & Nico!
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What we can see in our work: in these individualistic times in which we live, many people have a strong need for connection. For this reason, we want to connect these people, that feel the call for more depth in their lives, to connect with others in their authenticity.
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