Frequently asked questions about the…
massage Rituals
Can I as well give you a massage?
No, there is no exchange happening in the massage. The roles are clear: The client is the receiving, I am the giving part.
Is there a happy end happening in the massage?
No. The massage is not a sexual service. Also not with extra payment.
Is the massage a sexual service?
No. The massage is not a sexual service. It is a holistic touch of emotional, physical and spiritual body which stays in the heart/caring energy.
Do you give an intim massage during a session?
No. There is no massage of the genital and intim parts happening. And as for some people intim parts are not just the genital parts, we will discuss before the massage, which bodyparts are touchable and which not.
How long does a massage take?
You can count with +- 3 hours on the place. The massage itself will last +- 2 hours.
What happens during the massage?
Before the actual massage we will have a talk about your intentions and about both our boundaries. After this we will start with a small welcoming-ritual to ground the energy and the massage will begin. After the massage you will have the possibility to integrate for a moment alone before we will have a short feedback-talk.
Can I make an appointment the same day?
Most of the time, this is not possible. As I need to book a room for the session and as my daily planning is done minimum two weeks in advance.
Is there a cancellation policy?
Any cancellation of a massage within 72 hours of the appointment will be charged a €100 cancellation fee. For same-day cancellations, 50% of the treatment cost (minimum €100) will be charged – to cover travel, room heating, rental, etc.
Thank you for your understanding.
Cuddle sessions
Can I touch you back during a cuddle-session?
No, the focus is fully on you: You are the receiving, I am the giving part.
Can I kiss you during the session?
No. It is a platonic space where the energy stays in the caretaking heart-energy.
Is there a happy end happening during the session?
No. The cuddle-session is not a sexual service.
Do you touch my intim parts during a session?
No. There is no massage of the genital and intimparts happening. And as for some people intim parts are not just the genital parts, we will discuss before the massage, which bodyparts are touchable and which not.
What happens during the session?
Before the actual cuddling we will have a talk about your intentions and about both our boundaries. After this we will start with a small welcoming-meditation to ground the energy and the session will begin. After the cuddling we will have a short feedback-talk.
Are we naked during the session?
No. The session happens fully dressed.
Is there a cancellation policy?
Any cancellation of a cuddle-session within 72 hours of the appointment will be charged a €30 cancellation fee. For same-day cancellations, 50% of the treatment cost will be charged – to cover travel, room heating, rental, etc.
Thank you for your understanding.
Group experiences
Do I have to touch / be touched by someone if I don´t feel it?
No. In our group experiences we encourage every participant to listen to their boundaries and desires. We open the field for an authentic communiaction, in which giving and receiving “no” is welcome and can be practiced.
What do I do, if everything/something feels "too much" for me?
There are no obligations in the space. All our impulses are just invitations. If you feel challenged by someone, something or yourself, you can at any point talk to us and we will find a setting, which feels good for you.
Are we naked during the evening?
It depends on the type of the event: Nudity is never an obligation. But if the evening could contain the option to be naked, I will explicitly point it out in the description of the event. If you have any questions or insecurities, please get in touch with me and we will find together a solution: hello@intousia.com.
Is it possible to have a discount?
For the most events I have a sliding scale of prices within which you can choose what feels right for you to give or what is at this moment financially possible for you. If for any reasons you do not have money at all, get in contact with me hello@intousia.com. Money should not be an obstacle.
Is there a cancellation policy?
Evening-Events
In order to value the preparatory work and ensure participants’ commitment, tickets for evening-events are non-refundable. Except if I cancel the event on my part. However, in a spirit of goodwill and appreciation for your generosity, any amount paid beyond the minimum conscious contribution may be transferred to another event of your choice or refunded.
In case of death of a family-member, I will refund the ticket fully.
Seminars or Workshops
In order to value the preparatory work and ensure participants’ commitment, I ask for a deposit of 200 € which is non-refundable. Except if I cancel the event on my part. However, in a spirit of goodwill and appreciation for your generosity, any amount paid beyond the 200 € may be transferred to another event of your choice or refunded.
In case of death of a family-member, I will refund the ticket fully.
Intim-Portraits
Will you touch my intim parts?
No. There will not touch or massage happen in this ritual.
Is it possible just to have a painting, without a session?
Yes it is. Please fill the form on this page: https://www.intousia.com/meet-your-temple/ to let me know a bit more about your intensions and send me a picture on a secure way. F.e. via swisstransfer. For you information: If the picture is getting lost on the way or a third party (hacker or similar) has access to the picture – this is out of my responsibility.
As soon as the picture arrived, I will print it and delete it from my computer to guarantee the most security as possible.
What happens during a session?
We will first have a talk about your intensions and your path so far. After this we will have a welcoming-ritual in form f.e. of a meditation to ground you for the experience. After this you make yourself comfortable and you decide if and when the time has come to let me have a look on your intim parts. I will not look without you consent and invitation. If you invite me to have a look, I will make some sketches with in my notebook and after the session we will have a feeback-talk. After our session I will make a painting of these sketches, which I will send you by post.
Are we naked during the session?
We both will be dressed with a pareo/sarong or dress. During the session you will decide, If you want to do the step to let me have a look on your intim parts or if you feel in the moment it is not the good time.
Is it possible to have a discount?
Money should not be an obstacle. If this proposition is calling you, but you do not have enough money, contact with me hello@intousia.com and we will find a solution.
Is there a cancellation policy?
Any cancellation within 72 hours of the appointment of a session in presence will be charged a €30 cancellation fee. For same-day cancellations, 50% of the cost will be charged – to cover travel, room heating, rental, etc.
Thank you for your understanding.